How I Got My Life Back: 10 Words That Changed Me
It’s been said that the pen is
mightier than the sword. I never really believed that until I found myself in a
situation where I had to choose my words carefully. You see, I was in an
emotionally and mentally abusive relationship for many years. And my ex-partner
would use any words he could think of to try to control me. But I finally
realized that I didn’t have to listen to him anymore. And I could use my own
words to change my life. So, in this blog post, I want to share with you the 10
words that changed my life. These are words that helped me leave my abuser and
start living a life of my own. I hope they can help you too.
The
day that changed everything
I was in my early twenties when I
hit rock bottom. I had been through some tough times before, but this was
different. This time, I had lost everything - my job, my home, my possessions.
I was completely alone and didn't know where to turn. I felt like I had nowhere
to go and no one to help me.
That's when I came across a book that changed everything. The book was called
"The Secret" and it changed the way I thought about life. It showed
me that I could create my own reality and that I was the only one who could
change my life. It was a revelation!
After reading that book, everything started to change for me. I got a new job,
a new home and started to create the life I wanted. The Secret showed me that
anything is possible if you believe in yourself and put your mind to it. It's
been a few years since then, and my life is completely different - all thanks
to those words that changed me.
The
10 words that changed my life
The 10 words that changed my life
are:
1. "You are not alone."
2. "I'm here for you."
3. "I believe in you."
4. "You can do this."
5. "I'm proud of you."
6. "You're worth it."
7. "You're strong."
8. "You're amazing."
9. "Never give up on yourself."
How
those 10 words helped me get my life back
In 2009, I was struggling. I was in
my early twenties, working a dead-end job, and generally unhappy with my life.
I didn't know what I wanted to do or where I wanted to go. I felt like I was
just spinning my wheels.
One day, a friend of mine gave me a book called The Magic of Thinking Big. In
it, author David J. Schwartz outlines 10 words that he believes have the power
to change your life. They are:
1. Believe
2. Make it happen
3. Do it now
4. Be positive
5. Persist
6. Visualize success
7. Focus on opportunities
8. Think big
9 Act – don’t dream
10 Take action now!
I read those words and something clicked inside of me. Suddenly, I had a new
outlook on life. I realized that if I wanted things to change, I had to change
myself first. And so, armed with these 10 powerful words, I set out to change
my life for the better.
Believe: This was the starting point for me. If I didn't believe that things
could get better, then they never would. But once I started believing in myself
and my ability to improve my situation, everything else fell into place.
Make it happen: Once you start believing that you can make positive changes in
your life, you
What
I've learned since then
It's been 5 years since I made the
decision to change my life. A lot has happened since then, and I've learned a
lot. Here are some of the things I've learned since then:
1. How to be happy: I used to think that being happy meant having a lot of
money, a nice car, and a big house. But I've since learned that happiness comes
from within. It's about being content with what you have, and enjoying the
simple things in life.
2. How to be successful: For me, success is about doing what you love and
making a difference in the world. It's not about making tons of money or
getting famous.
3. How to deal with adversity: Life isn't always easy, and there will be times
when things don't go your way. But it's important to remember that these tough
times will make you stronger in the end.
4. How to enjoy life: Life is too short to spend all your time working and
stressing out about things that don't matter. Make sure to take time for yourself,
and do things that make you happy.
5. How important it is to help others: One of the most rewarding things in life
is helping others achieve their goals. Whether it's volunteering your time or
simply lending a listening ear, know that you're making a difference in someone
else's life.
Conclusion